Joy to the World, Moraa is Born
Our family grew by two tiny feet yesterday. Meet Verena Moraa, named after her great-grandmothers, and the newest light in our lives.
On the November 17th, 2025, at 12:50 PM, our world changed again in the most beautiful way. Verena Moraa Pulfer entered this world weighing 3,810 grams and measuring 52 cm. A perfect little human who has already stolen our hearts completely.
She made her entrance ten days past her due date, taking her time in true Verena fashion. In a lovely twist of fate, she arrived on World Prematurity Day which is a reminder that every baby's arrival has its own perfect timing. We are deeply grateful that both mama and baby are healthy and thriving.
More Than Just A Name
Verena Moraa Pulfer. Three names, two legacies, one extraordinary little girl.
Each name tells its own story. Verena, a Swiss name from the mum's side of the family, carries centuries of history and legacy of fighting for women's rights. Moraa, from my Kisii heritage, honors my paternal grandmother, Mary Moraa Obai. Pulfer connects her to Vreni's Swiss family, tying together generations in a single name.
My grandmother Moraa was the most selfless person I know to date. She passed away in December 2016, and not a day goes by without feeling her absence. She never met Ruby, and she’ll never hold Verena in her arms but through her name, her spirit, love, and memories get to live on in my household.
Moraa will write her own story, but she will do so knowing she carries the love and legacy of those who came before her.
Big Sister Ruby
Verena joins her big sister Ruby Kemunto Pulfer, who was named after my maternal grandmother. Two girls, two grandmothers, two different kinds of magic. Ruby has been excitedly preparing to be a big sister, and I cannot wait to watch their bond grow over the years.
The Process
Vreni was absolutely incredible. I know everyone says that about the person who just gave birth, but watching her bring little Moraa into the world all calm, focused, and resilient reminded me all over again why I married her. The strength it takes to bring life into this world is something I'll never fully comprehend, but I'm in awe of it every single time.
Moraa was born in Munich, at midday, in one of the city's oldest hospitals. After going ten days past her due date, we were on the verge of inducing, but Vreni went natural and needed no painkillers. All I did was hold her hand and deliver a few light-hearted jokes, making sure my "contribution" to the process was noted, even though the hard, painful work was entirely hers.
Beyond appreciating Vreni, we owe a huge thank you to the hospital staff. They were gentle, patient, and guided us every step of the way, turning what could have been a stressful day into a calm and supportive experience.
I'm now a father of two. That sentence still feels surreal.
What Comes Next?
The days ahead will be full of sleepless nights, diaper changes, and the beautiful chaos that comes with a newborn. Code reviews will happen with a baby strapped to my chest. Debugging sessions will be interrupted by feeding schedules. My sunday league team just earned one more keen fan. And honestly? I wouldn't have it any other way.
Verena Moraa Pulfer, welcome to the world. Your grandmothers would have loved you beyond measure. We already do.
To everyone who has sent messages, well wishes, and love—thank you. We feel incredibly grateful and incredibly blessed.
A note to my daughters: Ruby and Verena, if you're reading this post years from now, just know that you are loved beyond words. You carry the names of extraordinary women, and you will do extraordinary things. Your mama and I are so proud to be your parents.